My biggest pet peeve is when people change how they act depending on their company. It drives me absolutely insane when someone has a different personality for different people. One second you can be spending time with a friend and having a good time and the next second someone else walks into the room and it's like a whole new person emerges and takes over your friend's body. All you girls know what I am talking about. It makes me so upset when I am with one of my friends just having fun and when a boy shows up they transform into a whole different being. One may ask why this irks me so much. This shift in personalities is so bothersome to me because I am a blunt and matter-of-fact person. I don't waste my time pretending to be things I am not and I won't go out of my way to try to impress others. I just do not see the need to change my personality to suit a group of people. If they don't like me then I don't see the need to be around them. The solution to this problem is to just be you.
So am I the one that needs to change my mindset or are these personality tranformers the ones that need to change? I would definitely have to say that I am not the one that needs to change my way of thinking. I firmly believe that these people with multiple personalities are the ones who need to change. They should pick one personality and stick with it. You should be who you are and you shouldn't have to change who you are in order to impress someone or to make them like you. If someone doesn't like you for who you are then you don't need them in your life. Also, it is quite difficult for the rest of us to try to keep up with your different personalities. It is confusing and I find myself wondering what personality is the individual's true personality. Overall, make it simpler on yourself and us and quit changing personalities all the time!
I totally agree! I've had some friends who act pretty normal and chill when they're around me, but once we get into larger groups with different people, they completely ignore me and act a lot more stuck up. They should realize that changing your personality like that likely won't make others like them any more or less. You're right, people just need to be themselves.
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